Top 10 Movies about Families and Illness Suffering

They say a picture is worth a thousand words. I’ve found movies to be powerful learning experiences for my students and myself. Movies highlight family stories about the experience of illness, draw the viewer into the poignancy and loneliness of illness suffering, and model how family members and health care professionals respond to illness in helpful and not so helpful ways. One compelling movie clip can illustrate the reciprocal influence between families and illness better and quicker than several theoretical seminar discussions. My colleague, Dr. Lorraine Wright, created a clever assignment that I continued to use in a graduate interdisciplinary course called, “Families and Illness”. Students were asked to view a movie from a selected list and offer their reflections about the movie in a written paper. Here are the trigger questions they were invited to reflect on:

  • How has the movie impacted/influenced you personally and professionally?
  • What stood out for you as you watched this movie?
  • Identify one belief of yours that was challenged by watching this movie.
  • Identify one belief of yours that was strengthened or affirmed by watching this movie.
  • What will you do differently in your clinical practice with families experiencing illness as a result of viewing this movie?

Here’s a list of my current TOP 10 FAVORITE MOVIES about families and illness suffering. The list includes movies that focus on mental illness and physical illness–both life-shortening and chronic illness. Plot descriptions have been taken from www.imdb.com.

The Diving Bell and the Butterfly (2007)
The true story of Elle editor Jean-Dominique Bauby who suffers a stroke and has to live with an almost totally paralyzed body; only his left eye isn’t paralyzed.

Away From Her (2006)
A man coping with the institutionalization of his wife because of Alzheimer’s disease faces an epiphany when she transfers her affections to another man…

A Beautiful Mind (2001)
After a brilliant but asocial mathematician accepts secret work in cryptography, his life takes a turn to the nightmarish, a story of schizophrenia.

The Savages (2007)
A sister and brother face the realities of familial responsibility as they begin to care for their ailing father.

Invasion of the Barbarians [Les invasions barbares] (2003, French)
During his final days, a dying man is reunited with old friends, former lovers, his ex-wife, and his estranged son.

Stepmom (1998)
Anna and Ben, the two children of Jackie and Luke, have to cope with the fact that their parents divorced and that there is a new woman…dealing with death and grief.

Iris (2001)
True story of the lifelong romance between novelist Iris Murdoch and her husband John Bayley, from their student days through her battle with Alzheimer’s disease.

Philadelphia (1993)
When a man with AIDS is fired by a conservative law firm because of his condition, he hires a homophobic small time lawyer as the only willing advocate for a wrongful dismissal suit.

Ordinary People (1980)
Beth, Calvin, and their son Conrad are living in the aftermath of the death of the other son. Conrad is overcome by grief…

My Left Foot (1989 Irish)
The story of Christy Brown, who was born with cerebral palsy. He learned to paint and write with his only controllable limb – his left foot.

Janice M. Bell, RN, PhD

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My Story Starts Here…

Every family has a story; every story has a family…

They say that every story is told differently, depending on the audience. Here is my story. I come from a large, extended, matriarchal family of grandparents, aunts, uncles, and many cousins who have enriched my life within a network of supportive, nurturing relationships. In my own family of origin, I am the eldest of four children and both of my parents were health care professionals. Being connected to family, valuing family, and learning from strong women is an integral theme of my story.

I was first drawn to the idea of focusing on families in health care in the late 1970′s when I joined the University of Calgary, Faculty of Nursing with a new master’s degree in Mental Health Nursing and learned about Family Systems theory from Dr. Karl Tomm. Karl served as a consultant to the Faculty of Nursing from the Family Therapy Program–a clinical practice and education unit that he developed within the Faculty of Medicine. Under Karl’s leadership, Calgary was a hotbed of early innovation in systemic family interventions with frequent visits from the Milan Team, Michael White, David Epston, Humberto Maturana, and many other influential family clinicians and theoreticians.

I had the pleasure of meeting Dr. Lorraine Wright, a brilliant clinician and teacher, at one of these workshops and was delighted to discover that she was a doctorally-prepared nurse. I heartily endorsed her recruitment to the Faculty of Nursing in 1980 as the Master of Nursing program in advanced practice began. I later focused my own doctoral research on couples experiencing illness and interviewed both spouses together across several months through their diagnosis and treatment of breast disease. Thus began my shift from nursing only the individual to nursing the “family”.

In 1986, I was invited by Dr. Lorraine Wright and Dr. Wendy Watson Nelson to join them in a unique outpatient clinic at the Faculty of Nursing named the Family Nursing Unit (Bell, 2008). And the rest of the story, as they say, is history! Practice with families informed our teaching, research, and scholarship. Together, as a team, we worked with families experiencing illness, supervised graduate student practice with families, taught family nursing theory, conducted research, and created new knowledge about nursing practice with families. Lorraine Wright coined this clinical scholarship, “Family Systems Nursing” and urged our team to “let the work speak for itself”. Our learning from families has informed the development of several practice models for family-focused care including the Calgary Family Assessment and Intervention Models (Wright & Leahey, 1984, 1994, 2000, 2005, 2009); the Illness Beliefs Model (Wright & Bell, 2009; Wright, Watson, & Bell, 1996); and the Trinity Model (Wright, 2005).

I am also a daughter, sister, wife, and mother who has personally experienced illness suffering in my own family. I am the daughter of an ill and dying parent and often felt “invisible” to health care providers while holding vigil beside my parent’s hospital bed. I am a mother who was criticized for advocating for my son’s care during his hospitalization. I am the wife of a seriously ill husband who was rarely included in discussions about his diagnosis, treatment, or prognosis. Illness, I have come to understand, is truly a family affair! Thankfully, I have also experienced excellent family-focused care offered to me by health care professionals, but this has been an exception rather than the rule. My life’s work is focused on building capacity in nurses and other health care professionals to care for families with competence, confidence, and compassion that “softens” illness suffering.

This is my story.

Janice M. Bell, RN, PhD

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